Love, Unlimited is for couples who are 100% committed to creating lasting, rock solid love in their relationship.
Because of that, Love, Unlimited is by application only.
“Love, Unlimited” is a premier 16 week program designed for couples who want to resolve long standing gridlock issues, rekindle friendship, re-ignite intimacy and create unlimited love that lasts a lifetime.
If you lie awake night after night, replaying recent arguments, feeling alone, worrying what kind of message you are modeling to your kids about love, telling yourself to lower your expectations because “you can’t have it all” …
Yet deep down there is a part of you that longs to feel cherished, and for the ease and intimacy that comes from having a rock-solid relationship…. then “Love, Unlimited” is for you.
DEAR SEEKER OF LASTING LOVE,
I know your heart aches for more….
You crave an easy, joyful relationship to share your life with your best friend, to be each other’s biggest support, to communicate with affection even during disagreements, to feel fully known and cherished, to create a home filled with love and laughter and to pass on a model of healthy love to your kids.
But instead, you are EXHAUSTED from balancing work and home, ARGUING about the same things over and over and walking on eggshells during those times, feeling ALONE, CRITICIZED and UNAPPRECIATED, and feeling GUILTY that you are sending the wrong message to your kids about love.
IN SHORT: You want nothing more than for this negative cycle to stop, to feel safe again, and to travel through life with your loyal, passionate partner in crime. You dream of Rock-Solid Love.
Before we found you, I was going through some depression and Matt was having some difficulties with his daughter, so his attention toward me and us was a lot less than before, and we were REALLY not doing well. I remember feeling so hopeless and lonely and him saying he felt like he had to choose between his baby girl and me...he was so angry and barely spoke to me....We had even started considering a trial separation.... Even after our very first session with you, I felt some hope....And within a few weeks, we noticed more talking, less yelling....Slowly, we started to laugh and have fun again....I felt like you believed in us. I really needed that, especially in the beginning...thank you for doing what you do.
But the real reason I know I can help you is that:
I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU’RE GOING THROUGH.
For a long time, I too struggled in my relationships, and couldn’t figure out how to create healthy, happy love that lasts.
You see, I was raised in an emotionally and physically abusive home. And although I was blessed with loving grandparents and loyal friendships, I did not grow up with a model for safe, secure romantic love.
As an adult, I put myself through medical school, became professionally successful, and enjoyed several close friendships. Yet, romantic love eluded me, and I found myself as a 30+ year old:
In and out of relationships that seemed to start off well and take a nosedive after a few months or years
There would be an initial honeymoon period, when I was sure I had found my soul mate
Gradually, we would fall into repetitive patterns of hurtful arguments over key issues that felt unresolvable
We would talk about our problems over and over, desperate to find a solution, but only getting more upset with one another each time
I would become anxious and dependent on the relationship, gradually giving in and giving up parts of myself more and more, in order to keep the other person “happy” …. a constant cycle of “compromise” that bred loneliness and resentment
I would frantically read books, listen to podcasts, go to therapy and try harder to communicate….
Slowly, connection and intimacy would be replaced with practical exchange of “to-do” lists and we’d become more like roommates
Finally, it would come to an end, and I would convince myself it was because we were not compatible and I just hadn’t yet found “the one”
I was even married for 3 years, and yet this pattern reasserted itself and the marriage ended in a cloud of hurt and confusion. Lasting love continued to be a mystery to me.
Finally, a few years ago, I hit the pause button on dating and decided to go straight to the source of relationship wisdom – I became a couples therapist myself! And the more I learned, the hungrier I became for this essential life wisdom (I am now convinced this should be required learning in every high school…would save many of us so much heartache!) *wink*
Here’s the kicker– within only FOUR MONTHS of learning and applying these principles, I met the woman who became my best friend, soul mate, partner in crime – and now – my wife! Over the last few years, we have together created the rock-solid love that I once thought was possible only in my dreams. Do we disagree on things sometimes? You bet we do – that’s part of any normal adult relationship! But we stay loving and connected through it all, our home is filled with laughter and goofy antics, we know each other’s dreams and secret desires, make time to enjoy intentional intimacy in and out of the bedroom, and we make each other’s happiness a priority, even in the mundane moments of life.
And I know, in my bones, I have unlocked the code to relationships and found my lasting love.
I can help you turn a life of loneliness, frustration and hurt into one of connection, joy and intimacy.
You won’t have to go through years of training, read every book I’ve read, or experience every heartache, before learning the art and science behind lasting love.
And no, you don’t have to spend years in couples therapy either!
Most couples imagine it’ll be easy to repair their relationship using the DIY route.
Maybe you’ve been taught that relationships should “be easy and work on it’s own, or it’s not the right one.”
Or “If you’re not compatible in most things, then he/she is not your soul mate”.
If so, here is my question for you – would you approach your career or parenting this way? We spend years honing our craft and learning to be good parents, and yet, we often approach our most important adult relationship with a “Oh well, it either works or it doesn’t” attitude. No wonder many of us struggle in romance!
There is nothing worth having in life that does not require some challenge and growth.
Almost every relationship runs into trouble at one point or another.
So, what separates the masters of love that make it, from the disasters that stay unhappy or end in divorce?
The difference is mindset.
Even when the relationship is NOT working, the folks in disaster relationships think:
“It’s fine, everything will work out if I just wait it out”
“I just need to lower my expectations and compromise more”
“This program might work for xyz, but it will never work for us”
“We’ve tried everything; I guess whatever is meant to happen will happen”
“If I just stay patient and wait it out, he/she will come back to me”
“The only way for this to improve is if BOTH of us agree to do the program, and I know my partner won’t. So my situation is hopeless” (This is a big myth. You can change your relationship just by changing YOUR steps in the dance. I’ll show you how!)
“This is too expensive. We can just read a book/go to therapy/talk about stuff and it will get better”
“Our relationship won’t really affect the kids. They’ll be fine. They’re too small to remember anything”
“Our lives are too busy right now. We’ll do it when – insert your favorite excuse here – the kids are older/ we have more money/ our careers aren’t so crazy/ we finish training/ we move/ we get the raise/ I’ve lost the pregnancy weight/ we get the new business off the ground etc.
I know that’s NOT you! Please don’t be let your relationship be another divorce statistic, like I did, and put yourself and your family through so much pain, before you wake up.
I don’t want you to waste anymore precious time trying to make it all work on your own.
That’s why I developed my “Love, Unlimited” program!
We’d tried everything before we found you– books, spiritual advice…even did couples therapy for a year. And still we just kept arguing all the time…mostly about money and parenting I think. It was so bad, we began avoiding each other as much as we could....I remember I could barely sleep at night,knowing my daughter was watching this...she picks things up like a sponge!....A few weeks after we started the program, slowly things began to change.I don’t even know how….but we went from being constantly angry with each other, to….kinda falling in love all over again.... I think the best part of the program was always having you to rely on as we learned and tried new things those 4 months….It’s been 3 years since we finished, and I love the marriage we’ve built. In fact, we are now expecting our second! Fingers crossed we can keep up with all the upcoming chaos lol.
Love, Unlimited is for couples who are 100% committed to creating lasting, rock solid love in their relationship.
Because of that, Love, Unlimited is by application only.
MODULES AND LESSONS:
Module 1: Moving from Anger to Connection & Friendship.
- Naming the Dance: Be able to clearly see and name your unique relationship “dance” without blame or anger. When we can see and name something it stops being an amorphous, confusing, scary phenomenon, and instead becomes a tangible pattern that you can describe, and hence change.
- Learn to catch yourselves when the dance is about to take over, and use cutting edge de-escalation and connection techniques that will calm your body and mind in the moment.
- Create a foundation of friendship. There is a specific science to being each other’s best friend, and I will walk you through step by step. I guarantee you will have a lot of fun and laugh like kids during these exercises.
Module 2: How to Talk So Your Partner Will Listen, and Listen So Your Partner Will Talk
- From Conflict to Communication: Guys, this skill TRANSFORMED my life. Not just in romantic relationships, I use this with my family, colleagues, friends, neighbors…. it’s a powerful technique that will have you both figure out ANY gridlock issues – money, sex, kids, chores, in-laws, work-life balance, respect – you name it – anything you both find yourselves caught up in a hurtful cycle on, this will help you get past it once and for all. You will use this one over and over again, throughout your lives.
- Repairing old wounds: Ah, there is no relationship that does not have old wounds. And you may have some, as most of us do, from your past or your childhood too. Although we cannot go back and change whatever has happened, we will help you both be able to talk about it gently and lovingly, and begin to repair even the most painful of betrayals or wounds, so it’s not a barrier that keeps true intimacy at bay. I know this one sounds scary, but I promise you, I am very skilled at this, and will lead you both gently but firmly every step of the way, until we cross the chasm and are on the other side.
Module 3: Trust, Commitment and Sex.
- Strengthening trust and commitment: These two are essential to lasting love, and by the end of this module, you will feel renewed sense of trust and be equally committed to your bond.
- Healing the top 3 areas of concern that are specific to your relationship, and using them as opportunities to deepen your connection (Yes, having conflict is actually a good thing – It means you still care! And we can use them as entry points to deeper connection.)
- Sex and Intimacy: Creating sensuality and passion, in and out of the bedroom. Couples in our program tend to love these exercises. No matter how “different” you and your partner may be in your sexual needs, this will get you out of the “wrong vs right” mentality and into having fun. I will help you reignite the “goosebumps and heart racing” feelings you once had for your partner (even if it’s been years since you last felt this) and have you BOTH enjoying sex again.
Module 4: Sacred values and Rituals + How to carry this love forward through the future!
- Creating shared meaning for your life and future: I will help you both create a shared value system, one that works for both of you, that will hold a sacred place in your marriage. You can refer to this throughout your futures, when big or difficult or competing decision points arise. One of my clients describes it as a “lighthouse that shows us the way whenever we feel a bit lost”
- Create rituals of connection: As human beings, we are creatures of habit. There is research showing that when family units that have distinct and special rituals, tend to feel closer and stay connected through the years. I will help you create intentional rituals that celebrate your special bond. P.S. A bonus surprise ritual will be included in the program!
- At the end of the program, we will celebrate your journey and I will show you how to do a “Relationship Wellness Check” every year, so you can nurture your bond and enjoy rock solid love for a lifetime. This is a crucial step, that will help you both feel confident to face all the possibilities and uncertainties that the future brings. You will leave knowing, in your bones, that you have the tools to come back together even when life stressors hit (as they inevitably will).
I've worked with Dr.Sun for more than 4 years now. She is someone we all try to emulate. She is intelligent, knowledgable, gentle, approachable and she makes others feel like time is standing still when she talks with them. We call her 'the doc with the magic wand'.
Love, Unlimited is for couples who are 100% committed to creating lasting, rock solid love in their relationship.
Because of that, Love, Unlimited is by application only.
This program will transform your marriage and your life, create abundant intimacy and joy in your home, and set an example for your kids on how to create healthy love in their future too!
But that’s not all! You will also receive these amazing bonuses:
Love, Unlimited is for couples who are 100% committed to creating lasting, rock solid love in their relationship.
Because of that, Love, Unlimited is by application only.
Before we found you, I was going through some depression and Matt was having some difficulties with his daughter, so his attention toward me and us was a lot less than before, and we were REALLY not doing well. I remember feeling so hopeless and lonely and him saying he felt like he had to choose between his baby girl and me...he was so angry and barely spoke to me....We had even started considering a trial separation.... Even after our very first session with you, I felt some hope....And within a few weeks, we noticed more talking, less yelling....Slowly, we started to laugh and have fun again....I felt like you believed in us. I really needed that, especially in the beginning...thank you for doing what you do.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOU APPLY?
When you click to apply for your private Relationship Breakthrough call, I’ll help you gain clarity on your relationship challenges and life goals, and answer any questions you have about the program. If we both feel it’s a good fit, I will invite you to join “Love, Unlimited” and we can start right away. Once you complete your registration and payment, your Welcome Packet and Orientation Module will arrive in your inbox!
Love, Unlimited isn’t your typical coaching program.
I’ll show you how to hone in on the core issues, quickly calm your distress cycle, and gradually create abundant and intimate connection. With the right support, steps and tools, you won’t waste anymore time aimlessly reading articles and books that don’t pertain to your specific issue, trying in vain to solve your problem by talking it over and over with your partner, only to end in more pain and disconnection, asking friends/family for help, or dragging your other half to therapy for months…or even years…while the same underlying patterns persist and worsen.
No more wasting time standing on the sidelines of life, longing for unlimited love. Let’s take a moment to really imagine that. What would you do with that invincible feeling of knowing you have rock solid love in your life?
TRUE LOVE GIVES US COMPLETE SAFETY, WINGS TO FLY, AND COURAGE TO CREATE. WHAT WOULD YOU CREATE?
Open a world of unlimited possibilities!
This will be a journey of a lifetime and I can’t wait to dive in with you both.
If your partner is not on board yet, do not fear.
You are one half of the dance, and once you change your steps, the relationship automatically shifts. You can create a stronger, more loving bond JUST by dancing differently. When your partner sees the relief and joy you are experiencing, and things begin to shift that haven’t shifted in years, he/she will WANT to be a part of this journey toward unlimited love.
There are plenty of programs out there that teach personal growth, but none of them take the time to show you exactly how to transform your unique relationship, and lead you step by step from hurt and disconnection, to the rock solid love you secretly long for.
I feel so grateful to be able to share this information with you. It’s changed my life forever and I know it will for you, too.
When you enroll into Love, Unlimited, you’ll connect with the deepest parts of yourself and your partner, heal even the most painful hurts and connect with tenderness and intimacy again:
You will:
I used to think all this was just a wishy-washy, unrealistic, fairy tale dream. But I know it’s not – because I have now created all this and more in my own life. This is how un-limited, rock solid love feels. I have helped countless couples that have tried everything else and feel hopeless, reconnect and find hope again. And I can help you create this with your partner
In these 16 weeks, you will get more than a proven system. If you show up willing to learn and do the work – you’ll experience a complete transformation of your relationship and have the unlimited, rock solid love that you’ve always longed for.
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Love, Unlimited is for couples who are 100% committed to creating lasting, rock solid love in their relationship.
Because of that, Love, Unlimited is by application only.
IT TAKES COURAGE TO ADMIT YOU ARE LONELY AND HURT. IT TAKES COURAGE TO BE WILLING TO TRY SOMETHING NEW.
LASTING LOVE IS WITHIN YOUR REACH IF:
- You are sick and tired of walking on eggshells and your arguments are beginning to sound like a broken record
- You’ve struggled to make changes on your own and are ready to get help from an expert who has spent years studying and living these principles.
- You’re unwilling to give up on this relationship without a fight
- You understand if you want different results, you have to do something different
- You’re willing to give a couple of hours each week, for 16 weeks, to learning the principles of rock solid love, and doing the work. Work that will positively transform not just your life, but your kids lives as well.
- You’re prepared to trust the process, trust me and trust yourself
- You can’t wait to feel fully known, unconditionally loved and passionately desired again.
YOU’RE PROBABLY NOT READY FOR LOVE, UNLIMITED, IF:
- You’re hoping for a quick/magical fix, without putting in the work. My dear, for this to work, your heart’s got to be in it! I can’t do the work for you.
- There is an ongoing affair, domestic violence, or moderate-severe substance abuse. If your relationship is struggling with one or more of these, you and/or your partner need to resolve it through individual treatment first, before couples relationship coaching has a chance to work.
- You’re stuck in blame mode, determined to make yourself or the other person wrong
- You believe you can DIY your way out of this
- You aren’t willing to give your all to the possibility of creating lasting love
YOU CAN KEEP GOING IT ALONE AND…
- Lie in bed every night going over the latest argument and worrying if your relationship will make it over the long haul
- Continue to feel unheard, unseen and unloved
- Go back and forth between blaming yourself, your partner or some external circumstance
- Make the mistake of thinking more communication will fix the problem
- Feel guilty for raising your kids in an unhealthy, unhappy home
…Or, you can put an end to struggling and join my program. I’ll show you how to heal the hurt, create authentic connection and finally enjoy intimate, lasting love.
I’VE BEEN THERE…
I know what it’s like to try and do it alone. We don’t have the ability to see ourselves objectively, and our relationship dance is so ingrained and automatic that we can’t even see the steps any more…. we just “do” them. I know you need- and want to save your relationship. Let’s work on re-creating connection and re-igniting trust and intimacy now…. before it’s too late. What are you waiting for?
Love, Unlimited is for couples who are 100% committed to creating lasting, rock solid love in their relationship.
Because of that, Love, Unlimited is by application only.
My Promise To You:
In these 16 weeks, you’ll get more than great information. You’ll experience a transformation of your relationship and a NEW confidence to repair and re-create intimate, secure, joyful connection whenever you need it.
You’ll leave knowing that you took your precious relationship from rocky to rock solid this year – and gave yourself and your family a priceless gift.
Have questions? We have answers.
Is this couples therapy?
Although I am a physician and a psychiatrist, this is a coaching program and I will function solely as your relationship coach.
Is this covered by insurance?
No.
Will I have to buy more resources to make this program work for us?
No, everything you need for a happy, healthy relationship is included in the program.
What if I buy this program and find out it’s not for us? Is there a refund?
I do not offer a refund. As in everything worth having in life, your results are totally dependent on your hard work, commitment, emotional skill, where your relationship is at when you join and many other factors. We will explore all this and more during the Relationship Breakthrough call. I promise I will not invite you to join if for any reason, I feel this program is not right for you – it would not serve either of us to do so.
What happens if we miss a session?
I know life is unpredictable and sometimes things come up that we didn’t expect. If you have to reschedule, please email me 24 hours in advance. Due to the nature of the program, all appointments have to be made up within a week, so it does not stall your progress. If you don’t reach out 24 hours in advance or just forget and miss a session, it cannot be made up. I allow up to 2 missed sessions over the 4 months of the program.
What happens if we couldn’t finish the program in 4 months, will there be an extension?
If you are, for any reason, unable to finish the program in 4 months, you can apply for an extension.
How much does the program cost?
The fast action price is 12K.
How much time commitment will this program require?
I recommend you set aside 20 minutes a day for the homework exercises, 1-2 hours a week for the LIVE GROUP coaching calls, and 45 minutes once a month for your 1:1 PRIVATE coaching calls with me, to create the unlimited, rock solid love you both deserve.
What if my partner isn’t willing to do the program with me right now?
If your partner is not on board yet, do not fear. We have had several folks begin the journey on their own and have great success. You are one half of the dance, and once you change your steps, the relationship automatically shifts. You can create a stronger, more loving bond JUST by dancing differently. When your partner sees the relief and joy you are experiencing, and things begin to shift that haven’t shifted in years, he/she will likely WANT to be a part of this journey toward unlimited love.
I’m excited to join! How do I pay?
You can pay in full, or in installments. Click the “Apply” button below to book your Relationship Breakthrough call.
Love, Unlimited is for couples who are 100% committed to creating lasting, rock solid love in their relationship.
Because of that, Love, Unlimited is by application only.